Saturday, July 9, 2011

We failed in our new year commitment by 98%.


All of my Dear readers, I found the above 9 words sentence in somewhere written in the books of statistical data with how we can make a change to it and exactly we faced the same problem when we make so many commitments and changes for a new year and by then we wait for another new year 2012. So what happened to my bad habits which I have been trying to be far from those habits, as still I am not able to follow “early to bed and early to rise makes a man healthy,wealthy and wise”, still I am not able to add morning exercise even though I have been looking and reading for the essence of exercise for a healthy life, still I am not being able to left the junk foods as my breakfast-lunch-dinner as I don’t have time for myself but I never take few minutes of my day to have a proper time management for the whole day, still I am not able to keep the things surrounding to me properly at proper place even though I have read and heard so many times that it’s all about a part of our happy life, still I am not being able to read and know what is happening in this Earth everyday, still I am not able to left the habit of putting more time in entertainment for the day in the name of relaxation of my mind, still I am not able to get proper time for my friends and family to have a good relationship with them and instead I am engaging more of my day to unnecessary show of the day, still I am not able to get off from using cigerates, tobacco, pan masala, which are all harmfull upto my next generation rather than for myself, still I am not able to make any plan for my future with short term plans to achieve my goal of life, still I am not being able to make any addition of good habits which I learnt from best men and women of my surrounding.

But by the next day, I plan to add any of the above sentences thinking that I am the one who is responsible for everything and I am the one who can make all these changes and really it works well but it takes time for making it as my second nature.


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Re-making of our Role-model!


It is well said that, our parents and teachers were the role models of we teenagers when we grown up as we were not in the habit of doing or behaving the things like our dream role models used to do during childhood as behaving like Einstein or Newton or Kalam during our youngster was more difficult than to talk about them. But we really learnt and did as it what our parents and teachers used to do by the next day. That is why my mother’s cook taste is just like anything which we won’t have in our life, my mother’s cared from which I learnt how I am careful from everything now, my father’s nature is what I inherited by then, so in other words when we born we never choose our parents, our parents choose us and when we go to school we never choose our schools but our parents choose our teachers. And still I remembered when one of my teacher was describing himself saying what we are looking at him is nothing but a combine character of all of his parents and teachers who brought up him till now. And he said how he is caring to us, how he is smiling to us, how he is talking to us and so and so, everything is what he learnt and inherited from them and thus when he stand and act for something then all of them used to come up and stand behind him and remaking him what they made him. And really try to see your images in front of your mirror how you are look alike, sometimes all those your well wishers are standing behind you whenever you used to stand and facing the struggles of your life.

But now almost a generation gap was over when we talked about our relationship with our parents and we were not in position to apply our good relationship as it should be. Even we talked about a good relationship like our parents should treat us like their friends and we should learnt more from our parents than from outsiders but it was not possible as we are in the habit of taking more time for ourselves than others. It’s not like that books were there, teachers were there, society was there to make all the changes but we were not ready for everything. And now another generation is readily waiting to learnt and make a continuation of our generation. But still we are not ready to share all those things of how a role model will be look like and how we will treat them as.

Even though everyone was so eager about a change when we started talking about a systematic and phenomenal change of our youngster’s educational system by making them to choose whatever she/he wanted and the interest of their way of thinking and doing the things. But our preceding generation could make it nothing except they try to make this lines more sense in grammatically, but this is the time to think all the above words more in dept about the length and breadth of the words but not the grammar of the sentences. In a sentence, let’s try to forget whatever you think we were in a wrong decision as we are going to make a new decision and let’s not make another 100% cut off in admission to schools and colleges because of us. We as a parent and as a teacher have to make so many promises when they will enter in this world of achievers; we have to make so many compromises when we will deal with them as our younger as well as our successor; we have to know and aware more about the newly going to be enter in their life other than facebooking, orkuting. Whatever we are talking about and reading about caring of others by our senses should be applied timely; whatever we are talking about making them more valuable, we should apply to them step by step when they will grown up. From foods to living with eco-friendly as per the sustainable development will be the theme of our future and aim of our every governance. Making them to teach for a better living will be our goal instead of making them to be more employability. A system where everyone is much more responsible then a single individual, a system where things are self accountable just by counting and looking at numbers, a system which will bring all the solutions for every problems which we are having as problems are meant for everyone and are because of us.

If you can, then try to make something change to someone just because of you!

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