NEW YEAR RESOLUTION……!!

American’s write much better English, obviously as English is their mother tongue and thus so while sharing the following few lines, I may not be that too much good like you are as English is not my mother tongue but still I use English in a better sense to express my views clearly than any other language (a big mistake of mine).

And above all these I am quite happy to say I am happy with everyone of you all’s warm acceptance over my various views in the last so many years or months or days which are gone by without any words of displeasure or disrespectful over any of the issues. So here again I am going to share some of the words of my New Year resolution which we all can together have a common value for living a life with a lot of value and happiness.

To LOVE our loving ones, starting from our parents ! During my school days I was not able to get a chance to watched Tom hanks’ “Saving Private Ryan”, really a brave soldier in the mid-field of war and death cried loudly with mama mama’s LOVE, I want your love, get me back to you when he is near to death! So when I got a chance to watch again, tears may not be enough to falls down in that remembrance. What a nature of we human have by nature, care them and LOVE them as much as you can. LOVE your loving ones to share how much you love and care for him or her. Life should be full of LOVE.

I repeat this sentences again from somewhere I have mentioned or taken out as this seems to be much appreciable for the reason why still I care for you. We humans are of again two fold classification by nature, one is called “RADIATOR” and another “Drain”, a RADIATOR is one who makes you happy with what he/she shares with you, one who cares you with his/her caring nature, one who supports and encouraged you for every step of your life, one who makes you easy to take every risk of your life purposely. And DRAIN, a one who drains out your happiness, takes your help to lose your spirit of going ahead, one who makes you down just because of his/her nature. So I care you in retaliation to preserve you as my RADIATOR. Try this with every RADIATORS whom you are eager for.

Our CAREER is what we make ourselves distress. But how comes it possible to make ourselves in a society with meritocracy where everyone should be graded, visiting cards are more important than how much I love my job. But the trend have changed a lot as “What are you doing?” is the first question when we meet each other for the first time after a long gap, and that answer makes the first difference, thus the judgment of ourselves is more dangerous than anything else when we talked about our CAREER. So why can’t we think someone’s job profile as his or her sympathy over that option of career instead of comparison over what you are doing.

Obviously, LAUGHING is a good medicine for everything what we bear in our mind over tension and worry. And really, it’s quite repetition from the very factual observation that nowadays we hardly LAUGH out for maximum of 5 minutes in our busy 60X24 minutes of the day. Care yourself after that you can care for others, if you longs yourself is what you needed in your world make it corrected with a bigger number of you such a lot of loners as the world needs groups not a singleton. Our society needs you and your care to bring so many people to LAUGH.

PEACE over war, Who dares all these as try to defeat others rules the rate of our success. But let’s make this defeat over others inside our four sided boundations only as the time has come to defeat our own failure by our own success of correcting our mistakes. Let’s correct it and brings PEACE of mind.

Let’s try for another PREAMBLE of our new year CONSTITUTION of our journey of life.

AD.......

PROMISE..

“.. Your vision is the promise of what you shall one day be; your ideal is the prophecy of what you shall at last unveil..”

In the songs of life and love for a beautiful existence we promise so many things to make complete our meaning of achievement, and thus here we have another promise for another year, another month, another week, another day, another hour, another minute, and for another second ahead in the days to come for so many steps ahead in our life.

If I could have devoted my useful one year to the works of a balance social and personal development, I could atleast try to have an attempt for another scale of Mount Everest such a task. If I could have another 30 days of hard work to make a change in the whole of my promise which I kept, this habit may make another second nature of improvement and with the rest of the 12 months. If I could have another week full of communication with my well-wishers and the surrounding, the knowledge may be handful with me with a lot of caring. If I could have another day, tomorrow may never dies with my hopes and aspiration. A one minute is enough to bear the peace and silent for those moments of my hard work. And a second may ticks within a second but it makes a minute, minutes to hour, days, weeks, months and year.

With best wishes for another new year 2012 with a lot of hopes and aspiration for the challenging task ahead in our goal of life……with your promise.

Regards from,

AD..

ANOTHER FARMER’S DAY

If I were a Doctor or an Engineer or an IAS or any of the highly educated citizen of this society, I would prefer to live luxuriously at cities with different amenities and might have forgotten about my village where I was born and brought up, I might have forgotten those promises which I kept during my childhood days, I might have forgotten from where it comes whatever I am eating everyday as no more I am out of purchasing capacity of all these. Because the education what we are getting itself taught us about all these happiest way of life only not about other ways of life what our more than 70% populations are living in far off villages of this vast country. And instead with all these we end up our day’s story with all these stories of celebrities to full of traffics of our cities which they can’t take a moment of rest with all these pity things done by what we humankind every day. May be we will put up so many answers for not able to live in that way starting from our social culture to a way of developmental thinking with living in higher class competitively and may be for other reasons of accessibilities of the things which we need for time being and which are not available in our so called villages. And for all these, nobody has ever tried to think for a solution to make accessible all these amenities to our villages except for what we read in so many policies of our frequently changing governments only.

Some days back I read an article with the heading of being a Farmer and expressing his views and problems in highly pronounced skill of English and later I thought for so many hours that how is it possible to believe 100% about his expression as in our society any of the luckiest hard worker who belongs to far off villages comes up with higher name and fame with improvement in financial status, it takes less than a day to migrate to a better city citing the reason for his or her better upliftment in the future and a farmer who can read and write with this much of better expression may take less than 100 days to migrate to cities for a better option as reading and writing makes the changes of being an agriculturist to other options of earning their life in our society. As myself also can’t express all those feelings and problems faced by a farmer as I never dreamt of becoming as a farmer and in our society all those who frames the policies related to agriculture which is the source of every eatable things, and later we blamed our system but never blame to ourselves when we have the problem of inflation or price rise or shortage of food but all these policies and problems are discussed and resolved inside the air condition offices which are located in our cities only. Otherwise to find a little space for farmers or agriculturist in any of the mass media seems to be under the name and interpretation of some of the so called good politicians to get more support from those non-farmer or non-agriculturist readers of our society. And above all these very recently, after a long more than 60 years of our democracy our government came up with a lot list to do to our ill effected far off villages to compromise with dumping waste and harms with so called nuclear risk but why not at our cities.

When power supply was disturbed due to shortage of coal which was blocked by some sections of society, when foods were not available to us easily due to the blockade of transportation with the demands of some sections of our society, when price rise was not able to control by the government etc and etc after that we started realizing the importance of those more than 70 % populations of our villages who use to put that much of hard work for the whole of their life without any second thought of leaving their occupation but by the next day we forgot all these second thoughts. Otherwise we all should pray for every farmers of our villages everyday for giving us all these valuable blessings in the form of our food, they are our first god other than those we worshiped in the name of religion.

As our system of education is so much bounded to employment opportunities with better living not for a better thinking with sustainable development, every young students are trained to live in a higher cost of living with higher earning not in higher value of living in simple way, every youngsters are guided with options of those which are respectable by name and fame in our society not for those which are valuable in a society, every youngsters are taught to crack the competitive exams but not to crack the problems of our surrounding and environment. So with all these we find difficult to get a doctors young sibling as a farmer or but showing getting a very few of our farmers young siblings who turns out with better achievement starts from shining like stars to migrate to a new address shows any development in the field of our non- irrational way of development. And it’s quite difficult to find an IAS or a doctor or an engineer or any of the educationalists working at our villages with their heartfelt love and care, if happens so may be one in hundreds.

So I promise you, If I will have my children then I will surely make she/he a doctor or an engineer or an IAS or some highly profitable profession and will make him/her to earn good for living happily in the cities only. If she/he happens to become a doctor then will surely open a chain of hospital or clinic to serve all the cities of our Nation not at the villages.

Please corrected me…….if it makes you wrong..!!!

By AD……..

EVERY LIFE IS WITH THOUSANDS OF POSSIBILITIES…..

(……..After writing a long 7 pages of letter to my old high school teacher after a long time narrating some of my experience about my life and how much I have changed since he taught me how to struggle in life to till now. No matter how bad we were and no matter how old our teachers are, they are always behind us and hope will surely the sentences which I expressed some of my views can be read much better by them than anyone else in this World. Dear friends at least this is my humble request, even though we are not living in a country like Finland where Teachers are like next to God to us, as at here everyone talks about how much money he/she is earning, whether he/she is in US or Britain that matters more than how much he/she knows what I called in a knowledge society and at here again I may be wrong as believing those four fold classifications of human mind what we have by our imagination, 1. With whatever I am telling is partially right with your views, 2. With whatever I am telling is exactly right with your views, 3. With whatever I am telling is totally opposite to your views, and 4. With whatever I am telling is totally new to you; kindly try to write something to our old teachers and wishing them a happy teachers day forever to them as the day when we came out from their hand we should celebrate everyday as their day. Because what we are living today is just because of yesterday. And apart from this I am here to narrate you all another Indian story, another story which you and I can read apart from our daily updates of celebrities and personalities as millions eagerly waits for a baby to be born in this materialistic world, whose baby; for one of the celebrities. We talked about those who are above the level of poverty as we all are above the level of poverty. But how about those who are living below the poverty line. Who will wait for another baby boy who is going to born in their family……)

We are surrounded by an environment which is related to nature but ruled by none other than this so called our rulers, as we divided everything as ours, otherwise what I am getting as my share of land property which was inherited by my father is belongings of nature but unfortunately who knows and remembered all about this. And for all these we fight for each other, we demand for our shares and we try to destroy the nature at last as nobody satisfy with our own rule of division and subtraction.

So here comes the story of a boy who is always with bounty of gift with thousands of possibilities in his ways ahead of life by nature as life remains the same like what you and I are having. But everyone believes that the fate and possibilities are with us only not with those who are down trodden. Once a baby boy was born but still at the age of 18 he don’t know where he belonged to as he was among many children of his family who seems to be the son of a labourer or slum dweller or lives in countryside or forest adhivashi where people never dream even to reach upto there and still he don’t know who are his parents when he came up to meet us and live among us as we speak different language and as our society neglects those who can’t produce any documents or read or write about their belongings; and again ours is all about thousands and we have thousands like him in our so called integral society which we always differentiate from us but their share belongings are comes under those who can read and write their parents name forcefully.

But your idea to share some of your knowledge about how the world is look like and how the things are moving, making them to involve in our social life, education not for employment but for living happily and equally like everyone, showing them the difference between good and bad, guiding them from the side, leading them to lid the light of value of knowledge will make possible for every thousands of possibilities in their life. Hope you might thought everything is with money but sometimes everything doesn’t comes with money. Otherwise they don’t have any space among thousands who frame the so called policies for them; nobody cares about how even they live as they belong to other side of the world. Did you ever try to imagine or try to reach upto them for a moment in your past days of life. If so you are one among the luckiest. So when one among us said our society is going to be changed tremendously with a separation like two sides of a coin which we can’t look both at the same time, there is no doubt for confusion.

And here I believe that life can be brought up by life only, sometimes not with money. May be you won’t agree as we are surrounding with everything which is much costlier enough to be bought by those thousands earners only but not by those who have few cents in their hand. But every man is born with a beautiful mind, as even a mad man use to have a mind. Let’s not compare money with knowledge. Hope your knowledge is the source of every possibilities of every life who can’t go ahead with many of the possibilities.

But believe me…”every life is with thousands of possibilities, not only for this boy but for all of us….….”

AD......

Children are born for Parents…..

“To father who cares for education, and mother who still encourages……”

They are crying! They are crying! please! please! Let’s help them as one day we are going to become parents of children like we who are neglecting our parents. So we will cry by that time. Any doctor or tantric can’t help to solve their problems as they longs for their own children’s love and care. You can’t tell others that a lady who is going in the street as your mother and a mother won’t get satisfaction with what others are pouring caring and love in the name of humanity as the nature of parents relationship with their children is totally different from what we having with others.

A gap of technology and traditional, a gap of science and scientific temper that’s all we have the difference with our old God mother and God father. Not by just repeating the story of Raja Harishchandra, we youngsters and younger generation need a lot of MNC and wi-fi family’s story of how their life story turns when their pocket fills up with 100 rupee notes to their millions/billions in their swiss a/c. Please don’t opt old age home as safe home for them instead of his or her own home. They may be old, they may be blurred, they may be blind, deaf, dump, and they may be childish; they will be always our parents forever and we will be the parents for our children all the time.

And one thing more, as I am still waiting for another scheme from every government or organization or any employer, a scheme like old age parents care leave scheme like our child care leave scheme, parents caring pay scheme as a part of every earning earned by their children in the name of our parents a/c, and more and more health centers in every corners of the country.

AD......arambam dhaneshor

A peace of mind !

How comes my success leads to your success and the world seems to be happy when I got achieved something small in my goal of life? Later I came to know that I am not living for alone, as I am living for others also.

If we continue talking while walking near to the sea shore with a cup of red tea, where the sound of tides dominates the rest of the world; no way for getting the pleasure for your kind presence at there where nobody gets a chance to get such a peace of mind. Our life and habit is like that only as whenever we have problems in our life we went to the sea shore or a garden or a worshiping place to share but not to get relax with the peace of mind; a fault for nature or we human?

Listen ! the sound of bakhtas who are chanting loudly the names of God in the temple running with thousands of devotee everyday making others prayer silent as God can hear from your heart also; the father of the church standing tall in front of others making a long list of prayers above for those who are praying for their own; the emam who is trying to make listen his voice to reach upto everywhere whoever want to pray to God sitting inside the masajid; and the rest.

Above all these there are so many Good things in this world, but we can see, hear and think only about bad things; Why? We need a peace of mind!

AD......!!!

We failed in our new year commitment by 98%.

All of my Dear readers, I found the above 9 words sentence in somewhere written in the books of statistical data with how we can make a change to it and exactly we faced the same problem when we make so many commitments and changes for a new year and by then we wait for another new year 2012. So what happened to my bad habits which I have been trying to be far from those habits, as still I am not able to follow “early to bed and early to rise makes a man healthy,wealthy and wise”, still I am not able to add morning exercise even though I have been looking and reading for the essence of exercise for a healthy life, still I am not being able to left the junk foods as my breakfast-lunch-dinner as I don’t have time for myself but I never take few minutes of my day to have a proper time management for the whole day, still I am not able to keep the things surrounding to me properly at proper place even though I have read and heard so many times that it’s all about a part of our happy life, still I am not being able to read and know what is happening in this Earth everyday, still I am not able to left the habit of putting more time in entertainment for the day in the name of relaxation of my mind, still I am not able to get proper time for my friends and family to have a good relationship with them and instead I am engaging more of my day to unnecessary show of the day, still I am not able to get off from using cigerates, tobacco, pan masala, which are all harmfull upto my next generation rather than for myself, still I am not able to make any plan for my future with short term plans to achieve my goal of life, still I am not being able to make any addition of good habits which I learnt from best men and women of my surrounding.

But by the next day, I plan to add any of the above sentences thinking that I am the one who is responsible for everything and I am the one who can make all these changes and really it works well but it takes time for making it as my second nature.

AD