Children are born for Parents…..

“To father who cares for education, and mother who still encourages……”

They are crying! They are crying! please! please! Let’s help them as one day we are going to become parents of children like we who are neglecting our parents. So we will cry by that time. Any doctor or tantric can’t help to solve their problems as they longs for their own children’s love and care. You can’t tell others that a lady who is going in the street as your mother and a mother won’t get satisfaction with what others are pouring caring and love in the name of humanity as the nature of parents relationship with their children is totally different from what we having with others.

A gap of technology and traditional, a gap of science and scientific temper that’s all we have the difference with our old God mother and God father. Not by just repeating the story of Raja Harishchandra, we youngsters and younger generation need a lot of MNC and wi-fi family’s story of how their life story turns when their pocket fills up with 100 rupee notes to their millions/billions in their swiss a/c. Please don’t opt old age home as safe home for them instead of his or her own home. They may be old, they may be blurred, they may be blind, deaf, dump, and they may be childish; they will be always our parents forever and we will be the parents for our children all the time.

And one thing more, as I am still waiting for another scheme from every government or organization or any employer, a scheme like old age parents care leave scheme like our child care leave scheme, parents caring pay scheme as a part of every earning earned by their children in the name of our parents a/c, and more and more health centers in every corners of the country.

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A peace of mind !

How comes my success leads to your success and the world seems to be happy when I got achieved something small in my goal of life? Later I came to know that I am not living for alone, as I am living for others also.

If we continue talking while walking near to the sea shore with a cup of red tea, where the sound of tides dominates the rest of the world; no way for getting the pleasure for your kind presence at there where nobody gets a chance to get such a peace of mind. Our life and habit is like that only as whenever we have problems in our life we went to the sea shore or a garden or a worshiping place to share but not to get relax with the peace of mind; a fault for nature or we human?

Listen ! the sound of bakhtas who are chanting loudly the names of God in the temple running with thousands of devotee everyday making others prayer silent as God can hear from your heart also; the father of the church standing tall in front of others making a long list of prayers above for those who are praying for their own; the emam who is trying to make listen his voice to reach upto everywhere whoever want to pray to God sitting inside the masajid; and the rest.

Above all these there are so many Good things in this world, but we can see, hear and think only about bad things; Why? We need a peace of mind!

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We failed in our new year commitment by 98%.

All of my Dear readers, I found the above 9 words sentence in somewhere written in the books of statistical data with how we can make a change to it and exactly we faced the same problem when we make so many commitments and changes for a new year and by then we wait for another new year 2012. So what happened to my bad habits which I have been trying to be far from those habits, as still I am not able to follow “early to bed and early to rise makes a man healthy,wealthy and wise”, still I am not able to add morning exercise even though I have been looking and reading for the essence of exercise for a healthy life, still I am not being able to left the junk foods as my breakfast-lunch-dinner as I don’t have time for myself but I never take few minutes of my day to have a proper time management for the whole day, still I am not able to keep the things surrounding to me properly at proper place even though I have read and heard so many times that it’s all about a part of our happy life, still I am not being able to read and know what is happening in this Earth everyday, still I am not able to left the habit of putting more time in entertainment for the day in the name of relaxation of my mind, still I am not able to get proper time for my friends and family to have a good relationship with them and instead I am engaging more of my day to unnecessary show of the day, still I am not able to get off from using cigerates, tobacco, pan masala, which are all harmfull upto my next generation rather than for myself, still I am not able to make any plan for my future with short term plans to achieve my goal of life, still I am not being able to make any addition of good habits which I learnt from best men and women of my surrounding.

But by the next day, I plan to add any of the above sentences thinking that I am the one who is responsible for everything and I am the one who can make all these changes and really it works well but it takes time for making it as my second nature.

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Re-making of our Role-model!

It is well said that, our parents and teachers were the role models of we teenagers when we grown up as we were not in the habit of doing or behaving the things like our dream role models used to do during childhood as behaving like Einstein or Newton or Kalam during our youngster was more difficult than to talk about them. But we really learnt and did as it what our parents and teachers used to do by the next day. That is why my mother’s cook taste is just like anything which we won’t have in our life, my mother’s cared from which I learnt how I am careful from everything now, my father’s nature is what I inherited by then, so in other words when we born we never choose our parents, our parents choose us and when we go to school we never choose our schools but our parents choose our teachers. And still I remembered when one of my teacher was describing himself saying what we are looking at him is nothing but a combine character of all of his parents and teachers who brought up him till now. And he said how he is caring to us, how he is smiling to us, how he is talking to us and so and so, everything is what he learnt and inherited from them and thus when he stand and act for something then all of them used to come up and stand behind him and remaking him what they made him. And really try to see your images in front of your mirror how you are look alike, sometimes all those your well wishers are standing behind you whenever you used to stand and facing the struggles of your life.

But now almost a generation gap was over when we talked about our relationship with our parents and we were not in position to apply our good relationship as it should be. Even we talked about a good relationship like our parents should treat us like their friends and we should learnt more from our parents than from outsiders but it was not possible as we are in the habit of taking more time for ourselves than others. It’s not like that books were there, teachers were there, society was there to make all the changes but we were not ready for everything. And now another generation is readily waiting to learnt and make a continuation of our generation. But still we are not ready to share all those things of how a role model will be look like and how we will treat them as.

Even though everyone was so eager about a change when we started talking about a systematic and phenomenal change of our youngster’s educational system by making them to choose whatever she/he wanted and the interest of their way of thinking and doing the things. But our preceding generation could make it nothing except they try to make this lines more sense in grammatically, but this is the time to think all the above words more in dept about the length and breadth of the words but not the grammar of the sentences. In a sentence, let’s try to forget whatever you think we were in a wrong decision as we are going to make a new decision and let’s not make another 100% cut off in admission to schools and colleges because of us. We as a parent and as a teacher have to make so many promises when they will enter in this world of achievers; we have to make so many compromises when we will deal with them as our younger as well as our successor; we have to know and aware more about the newly going to be enter in their life other than facebooking, orkuting. Whatever we are talking about and reading about caring of others by our senses should be applied timely; whatever we are talking about making them more valuable, we should apply to them step by step when they will grown up. From foods to living with eco-friendly as per the sustainable development will be the theme of our future and aim of our every governance. Making them to teach for a better living will be our goal instead of making them to be more employability. A system where everyone is much more responsible then a single individual, a system where things are self accountable just by counting and looking at numbers, a system which will bring all the solutions for every problems which we are having as problems are meant for everyone and are because of us.

If you can, then try to make something change to someone just because of you!

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Totally different from me.

(The story of a boy and later became a man who capable to handle all the responsibility of being born in this generation, but as the culture, society and environment where he is at there, makes the difference of a different story but still it is so relevant to everyone of us. Once we reach our mind upto where an educated what we called and praise ourselves for what we are able to do as per the situation and condition, but you know the stories will be different as the ways are different. So I am talking about Indian story, I am not talking about USA, Australia or else. But still you are good enough as atleast you can think upto which you can and know the difference. I am going to tell you a story about what we are in as I belongs to your world.)

He was born as just like we were born, some of our parents faced more problem than they enjoyed happiness in their life since we realized in our life(but still they are so hopeful over us as our future will make everything change as everyone literate or illiterate remembers the golden spirit of Napolean that “Impossible is the word founds in the dictionary of fools”; but they never remembered another quotation “Give me a good mother I will conquer the whole world”), some of our parents shown us the empty way as the way for our future(but still we regret as we are in a different generation Biologically as well as Technologically), some of them pre-plan more than what we are supposed to plan when we will go ahead(but still we considered it as meaningless in relation with “we are born free, we should live free”),some of them enjoyed more than what they faced problems in their life(but they realized later only when they faced problems and by that time they murmured “Life without struggle is meaningless”); and he was also brought up in any of such situations above.

Then it is said that or by natural Justice of large human populations, education is what we need to care a lot for a young infants like him. By the same time some started commenting about this very essence terminology of education by this new generation, as sometimes we don’t need that much for a formal education with these much changed generation as every system of education at anywhere is the basis of a secure job opportunity and employability which makes a problem of mental depression with this large population of ever increasing number of unemployment at everywhere. So better is to shift the existing system to a better system of learning for a better living with much sustainable with the ever increasing problems in our environment. But the initial words and thoughts are brought up by the surrounding only not by the education from where he is going to get after he will be dress up with much better than before. Again everyone use to remember in their mouth that “Childrens are as pure as God”, but still they are brought up by showing more wrong doings even though we spend more time for praying to God as we are more innocent than others. In other words we can say, we are always right with what we are doing. So again he was brought up in these situations and he learnt how the world looks like apart from how these globe looks like from the Hubbles telescope.

By the time when his mind reached upto maturity as much as with biologically, in other sense he started having a sense of love and care for environment and surrounding apart from his soul and his dear one’s, he started tasting the things which he is not supposed to do as per the education what he got formally but he is just doing as what he have learnt from his surroundings. As there is saying that what we have seen is more adamant than what we read and what we act becomes a habit of our second nature. He started looking at the things more interestingly than before as his eagerness for differentiating the differences of opposite nature of the things happening as what is wrong and what is right is making more confusion with his presence of mind, education what he did and what he have learnt by just looking at those things. When he read those lines of “….seven stages of life..” life is becoming more valuable then before as he have to make more valuable for what his present is matter a lot. Again a time came to one among his seven stages that what he is seeing the things is nothing but its all about just a reason for what he was taught not for actual reason as still we humans are not able to find out where about of our origin. So what about the things we are taking it as beauty and ugly and nothing is there to classify for such classification in a better way till now with a proper parameters.

“…a beautiful life that is of positive thoughts with beautiful ideas that leads to every success of good works, not for fame but for satisfaction of truth, a change that longs to the betterment for everyday we awe, then live a life not making any hurt to others but be able to helpful to others, have regard of ourselves but never forget that we live for others in this world and don’t die people to cry as our perception is so limited upto a level that dead is the end as pictured in our mind but we never die really….” is what he considered will follow in his ways ahead but know by the time when he started having the habit of reading as it make him more to the nature of thinking a lots more and write more expressing about he wants to express.

He is more capable just because of the following questions what he put up to his mind and he just answer to himself:

1. Why we are not able to reach upto everywhere where our mind need to reach so that one day we will have a much broader mind and thought of expression, see our country itself is much enough to reach everywhere as still we are so restricted to only hundreds of story but we need thousands of story to heard every day. As India is all about thousands?

2. Why we never try to look on those reasons for what people are doing opposite to what we considered as truth?

3. If the value of living a life is to value itself and a very reasonable for our presence then why we were never taught till now by our elders those values of living a life, we need to make a change if we want to make a change in the next generation as they will follow our way only as we are not going to follow their way arithmetically as well as phenomenally?

4. If we dreamt of super heroes in our fictional and non-fictional stories to solve all these problems of our environments then why can’t we make it real from reel?

5. Learning from the past and thinking for the future, how we will go ahead is more important than to make it just passing our present?

6. As the origin of everything is from this Earth only then surely solution for every problems will also be able to get it from here only, but mining is more important than extracting?

Let’s see and wait what for this much capable man is going to do in his future but if you don’t mind we can have a think for a change in our minded also to learn to have a respect for others work either it may be big or small and to co-operate others as this philosophy will only leads to success of every work.

Man needs men, not money

Have you ever got the time to watch the moving clouds which takes different shapes, like sometimes tiger, sometimes dear, sometimes a human shape above your sky as like you use to watch when you were so cute enough to called as a lover of nature in your childhood by yourself? Exactly,NOOOOO…! now you don’t even have time to think over this again in your life, but let’s see by turning somewhat upside down of your palm which you have been frequently showing to one of your good friend who is so excited to tell everything about your future, like everyone is murmuring about this and that of corruption and so and so if we will compare with this society in a little bit wider and broader way of looking our life; so what’s there on your opposite side of your palm which you have been believing will make everything change in your future. Yes, you want something, what’s there man or money?

Once a friend of mine was suggesting to me so emotionally about how peoples are struggling on the other side of life which we can’t reach our mind; like we have food to eat, we have cloths to wear, we have money to buy, we have family to share our happiness, we have technology to reach upto where we want, we have education to go ahead, our family and myself is not being hurt by the Tsunami like incident in Japan, flood, drought, faced the incidents of Terrorist, human trafficking, against human rights like AFSPA in J&K and NEI(North East of India). And what is there in their life, who are not having any of the above and who are facing any of the above incidents in their life? The recent data collected from one of the oldest mental Hospital of the state of Jammu and Kashmir reveals that there have been more than double fold increase in the number of mentally related diseases in these areas in the last two decades. And what about other places, still uncountable as we believed this is all about part and partial of our life, but what actually is the problem. The problem is with this very essence of money for those who have already money in their hand, as introduction of the system of using money itself is also a big problem, as those who have money they wanted money not humanity, not love, not sympathy, not caring and those who don’t have money they really wanted caring, sympathy, love, satisfaction in their life. Yes, men (a man who can care and show sympathy, who can give thousands of love, a man who can pour thousands of satisfaction, a man who can give thousands of confidence, a man who can make thousands of change) is what they needed to get somewhat relax in the rest of their life, not actually money as which makes all these problems of mental disturbances.

And with this same climax, another emotional feeling shared by someone, but the matter was related to money not with my men. But later I translated it into to a person who shared this story is really what we needed, as she pick up a Five Hundred note rolled up like a one who might be having a single note in his hand and use to take it very carefully to his way for some important purposes and by mistake it slips out from someone’s pocket or hand, in her way. She was so worried for that person who lost his Five Hundred, as she is still not satisfied for getting that five hundred note without any reason of work and at last she did prayed for the loser with what she gained. So, a simple sympathy!

Oh the toooooo…..! sound is coming from the train which I have to board and so I am supposed to leave this Coimbatore railway junction, So I stop my words at here and closing for today but hope for another similar situation…….

Science and humanity: present generation

When we talked about scientific temper in this generation of Information and technology where we count number of internet user more precisely then our actual population of humanity in different field, really we are much improved generation by generation. And it is all about the beauty of Science which we inherited from nature. But who knows, when in one of the class room where a man with the passion of sharing his knowledge was engaging in the topic of nuclear energy as, (in simple words) “…we have atoms with negative charge electrons surrounding to the nucleus which is made up of positive charge protons and neutrons, and by science like charges repel and unlike attract each other, and these positive charge protons instead of repelling to each other by force of repulsion of electric force they attract each other by another stronger force called as nuclear force which is of short range means which is very active upto a short distance as here in this case the size of the nucleus is as much as comparable for this stronger force to act. But in the case of bigger atoms like Uranium which have protons of 92 by number, the above force of attraction of nuclear force does not works at here but instead the electrical force of repulsion due to being like charges and thus splits out when tapped lightly even with other nucleons and thus we get this the very idea of nuclear energy but actually it is all about that electrical energy which we get due to electrical repulsion inside the nucleus among protons…..” And nowadays we used it for the science of atom bomb and nuclear reactors for destroyer as well as a means for our energy in this generation. And this was the topic of debate between two persons who are related to their fields of technology where one is in favor of nuclear energy and another who is against the nuclear but in support of wind and solar energy in front of hundreds who are related and support to these fields, but after a long discussion pointing out their merits and demerits it was tied as both of them are equally right and equally favorable with nature and development. But you know even though this science made our life more beautiful generation by generation ahead but the level of degradation is as much as like the end of everything is very near.

And another field where we need to have more attention as this will be easier enough to make another change and wait for another generation with no more quality of we as human being. Yes, no doubt our mind is endless and as just like in economics “…human wants never ends…”, even though this line was fitted with economics but these community of science and technology is also having the same related economical mind in their own views and which makes only these changes. But still this community is claiming that science have limitation by nature even though the things are keep on reducing by size and here is this fascinating process of organ transplantation and the new approach of stem cell, reducing from the much bigger organ transplantation to a transplantation of the smallest structural and functional unit of a living thing i.e., cell. When we started hearing about to transplant (transportation or substitution or making a new instead for the damaged one with the biological process of growth) our human organs that is no more useful to us or its totally damaged to work for our human metabolism, we were just appreciated this beauty of science but when we heard about this much better capable biological method with development of science i.e., stem cell transplantation makes us more hazard to our mind with the question of whether we are going to exist or not, as all of the biological process is going to make a change once it will start functioning just the one we like to make it apart from solving all our problems related to treatment of different deadly diseases. As, as per this methodology we just need only a single cell from you and me to make another you and I. And this is going to be a hot topic of another equally favorable debate in the days to come. So just think it and mind it.

“…peoples are happy as they are living, but not for the reason why they are living..”

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