WE ALWAYS NEED A TURNING POINT AND ALWAYS EAGER FOR THAT

HOW MANY TIMES YOU REPEAT THE SAME MISTAKES YOU MADE IN YOUR LIFE....!!!

May be not able to change it or corrected it or not able to knew it or nobody is there to help you out....!!

So get your answer....!!

THE MOST IMPORTANT STAGE OF EVERY HUMAN IS OUR CHILDHOOD

Every child will become a man one day, but every man are different when they will be grown up as a responsible man. Even though science itself has already proved that every child started speaking when they were in mother’s womb, but why everyone speaks with different voices when they comes out. Some are with the voice of peace and some with the voice of cruelty. So instead of blaming each other when our responsibility is not properly taking care, just let’s try to have a better beginning with a better childhood which is the basis for every responsible man.

Pregnancy is meant for the most beautiful moment for every woman but she have to take care for her own baby since it grown up from a single cell to a fully grown human. The food she will be eating will be the food for her baby biologically, the thoughts of fear and worry she face will image over her baby, the surrounding she have need to change before the baby comes out, the neat and cleanliness of everything have to be utmost important to clear from every possible germs of diseases which may be prolonged even to her baby. As with this modernization everything seems to be accessible and can be bought by money only but really it is not like that with what nature have gifted with us. Taking words from our older generation and specialize doctors who are really meant for serving humanity with their gifted nature of caring for every human for does and don’t( and kindly pass it to others also and share without feeling any hesitation as this will save every childhood), obeying the rules of peaceful surrounding for the sacrifice of our going to be come out baby, taking nutritious food which our older generation use to obey and what we term in science as balance diet, etc etc are some of collection from my unscientific mind.

Then here comes the most important stage of we human, our childhood. What we have to feed them, how we have to take care for their behavior, what we have to teach them, what we should not show them. So all of these will make every possible difference and change when they will grown up with others. The strength of their immune system with nutritious food and taking care of neat and cleanliness , the things he/she have seen very frequently and that imaged in their mind that sown the seed for lifelong may be for good or bad, the sound she/he frequently heard makes them to change every voice when they grown up, the negligence by every parents to them makes them more negligence when they grown up. So a better future is with every completely healthy childhood.

So if we need a change, then let’s take these changes also one of the most important words of wisdom.

(This article is to be noted down by every policy makers and everyone who are parents and who will be parents one day for a healthy society and resourceful with peace and prosperous society with its own process of growth. Kindly try to take more words from related books and persons who are specialized in this field as here I am just showing a reminder as we human are so forgettable.)

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WHAT I LEARNT FROM MY LIFE TILL NOW..!!

Life is so beauty just because it gains a lot till upto it lost at the end. So no matter what you learnt till upto now be your happiness and an achievement. It comes out from my frustrated mind when I was thinking that what I have done from my long list of wishes and plans with my growing intuition and the idea which it cultivates apart from my inherited capability. As it was said that life and inheritance is all about a biological trick which is much fitted with our natural growth. So here I brings out some memorable parts and lessons what I learnt from my own life.

It was during my days of teaching, really fate is also like that we are born for something but we are placed at somewhere. But still I loved teaching and even I respect every teachers; that’s why I never missed to meet my teachers whenever I got chance. As I joined teaching at my earliest age and my assistant was there before me for more than a decade in that institute when I joined. And one thing is also there, to good everything seems to be good. So thus, as he is good he seems myself is also good enough to assist. So here starts we two’s story, a story which I learnt everything about how to look after to those who helps you and should be helped by any means. “Why we should not take care for the growth of our juniors by profession, as they are the one who stands as strong pillers for our growth.” Even though after working for more than a decade my assistant was much experienced but the very system which is present at everywhere needs a standard qualification to push up him to the better place to get all those benefits which are there. So as he is less qualified with much experienced, he needs my help to get a better qualification. With the help of my suggestion (of completing his certificate exams with distance mode without leaving the job) and support, he enrolled for further study with that much confidence to me to get more support and at last he got his certificate with a lot of smiley in his face and informed to me about his happiness. But the sad thing was that, I was going to leave that institute on that day with my personal gain in somewhere which I got better opportunity.

Since I started earning for my life I earned some shared of my earning for my happiness which is much more valued than just living a normal life. Sometimes if we will look into our surrounding we will find more of repetition than new hopes and rays of light. So the money I saved without indulging in much happier form of modern life style like drinking, smoking, roaming…etc etc…(as myself a teacher for my own life, I learnt from my continuous process of learning that all such activities are more harmful than anything else if we concerned for a better life.) But I tried to spent it for a different purpose, (otherwise really I missed so many things and happenings of life what everyone knows about our life.) So I have been making the habit of joining hands with my teachers, so visiting to schools located in the far off end corners and help them with my best support. Thus it brings million dollar happiness with my own hard work and Let the happiness be the part of our life.

So who said you are not successful…….!!!

NEW YEAR RESOLUTION……!!

American’s write much better English, obviously as English is their mother tongue and thus so while sharing the following few lines, I may not be that too much good like you are as English is not my mother tongue but still I use English in a better sense to express my views clearly than any other language (a big mistake of mine).

And above all these I am quite happy to say I am happy with everyone of you all’s warm acceptance over my various views in the last so many years or months or days which are gone by without any words of displeasure or disrespectful over any of the issues. So here again I am going to share some of the words of my New Year resolution which we all can together have a common value for living a life with a lot of value and happiness.

To LOVE our loving ones, starting from our parents ! During my school days I was not able to get a chance to watched Tom hanks’ “Saving Private Ryan”, really a brave soldier in the mid-field of war and death cried loudly with mama mama’s LOVE, I want your love, get me back to you when he is near to death! So when I got a chance to watch again, tears may not be enough to falls down in that remembrance. What a nature of we human have by nature, care them and LOVE them as much as you can. LOVE your loving ones to share how much you love and care for him or her. Life should be full of LOVE.

I repeat this sentences again from somewhere I have mentioned or taken out as this seems to be much appreciable for the reason why still I care for you. We humans are of again two fold classification by nature, one is called “RADIATOR” and another “Drain”, a RADIATOR is one who makes you happy with what he/she shares with you, one who cares you with his/her caring nature, one who supports and encouraged you for every step of your life, one who makes you easy to take every risk of your life purposely. And DRAIN, a one who drains out your happiness, takes your help to lose your spirit of going ahead, one who makes you down just because of his/her nature. So I care you in retaliation to preserve you as my RADIATOR. Try this with every RADIATORS whom you are eager for.

Our CAREER is what we make ourselves distress. But how comes it possible to make ourselves in a society with meritocracy where everyone should be graded, visiting cards are more important than how much I love my job. But the trend have changed a lot as “What are you doing?” is the first question when we meet each other for the first time after a long gap, and that answer makes the first difference, thus the judgment of ourselves is more dangerous than anything else when we talked about our CAREER. So why can’t we think someone’s job profile as his or her sympathy over that option of career instead of comparison over what you are doing.

Obviously, LAUGHING is a good medicine for everything what we bear in our mind over tension and worry. And really, it’s quite repetition from the very factual observation that nowadays we hardly LAUGH out for maximum of 5 minutes in our busy 60X24 minutes of the day. Care yourself after that you can care for others, if you longs yourself is what you needed in your world make it corrected with a bigger number of you such a lot of loners as the world needs groups not a singleton. Our society needs you and your care to bring so many people to LAUGH.

PEACE over war, Who dares all these as try to defeat others rules the rate of our success. But let’s make this defeat over others inside our four sided boundations only as the time has come to defeat our own failure by our own success of correcting our mistakes. Let’s correct it and brings PEACE of mind.

Let’s try for another PREAMBLE of our new year CONSTITUTION of our journey of life.

AD.......

PROMISE..

“.. Your vision is the promise of what you shall one day be; your ideal is the prophecy of what you shall at last unveil..”

In the songs of life and love for a beautiful existence we promise so many things to make complete our meaning of achievement, and thus here we have another promise for another year, another month, another week, another day, another hour, another minute, and for another second ahead in the days to come for so many steps ahead in our life.

If I could have devoted my useful one year to the works of a balance social and personal development, I could atleast try to have an attempt for another scale of Mount Everest such a task. If I could have another 30 days of hard work to make a change in the whole of my promise which I kept, this habit may make another second nature of improvement and with the rest of the 12 months. If I could have another week full of communication with my well-wishers and the surrounding, the knowledge may be handful with me with a lot of caring. If I could have another day, tomorrow may never dies with my hopes and aspiration. A one minute is enough to bear the peace and silent for those moments of my hard work. And a second may ticks within a second but it makes a minute, minutes to hour, days, weeks, months and year.

With best wishes for another new year 2012 with a lot of hopes and aspiration for the challenging task ahead in our goal of life……with your promise.

Regards from,

AD..

ANOTHER FARMER’S DAY

If I were a Doctor or an Engineer or an IAS or any of the highly educated citizen of this society, I would prefer to live luxuriously at cities with different amenities and might have forgotten about my village where I was born and brought up, I might have forgotten those promises which I kept during my childhood days, I might have forgotten from where it comes whatever I am eating everyday as no more I am out of purchasing capacity of all these. Because the education what we are getting itself taught us about all these happiest way of life only not about other ways of life what our more than 70% populations are living in far off villages of this vast country. And instead with all these we end up our day’s story with all these stories of celebrities to full of traffics of our cities which they can’t take a moment of rest with all these pity things done by what we humankind every day. May be we will put up so many answers for not able to live in that way starting from our social culture to a way of developmental thinking with living in higher class competitively and may be for other reasons of accessibilities of the things which we need for time being and which are not available in our so called villages. And for all these, nobody has ever tried to think for a solution to make accessible all these amenities to our villages except for what we read in so many policies of our frequently changing governments only.

Some days back I read an article with the heading of being a Farmer and expressing his views and problems in highly pronounced skill of English and later I thought for so many hours that how is it possible to believe 100% about his expression as in our society any of the luckiest hard worker who belongs to far off villages comes up with higher name and fame with improvement in financial status, it takes less than a day to migrate to a better city citing the reason for his or her better upliftment in the future and a farmer who can read and write with this much of better expression may take less than 100 days to migrate to cities for a better option as reading and writing makes the changes of being an agriculturist to other options of earning their life in our society. As myself also can’t express all those feelings and problems faced by a farmer as I never dreamt of becoming as a farmer and in our society all those who frames the policies related to agriculture which is the source of every eatable things, and later we blamed our system but never blame to ourselves when we have the problem of inflation or price rise or shortage of food but all these policies and problems are discussed and resolved inside the air condition offices which are located in our cities only. Otherwise to find a little space for farmers or agriculturist in any of the mass media seems to be under the name and interpretation of some of the so called good politicians to get more support from those non-farmer or non-agriculturist readers of our society. And above all these very recently, after a long more than 60 years of our democracy our government came up with a lot list to do to our ill effected far off villages to compromise with dumping waste and harms with so called nuclear risk but why not at our cities.

When power supply was disturbed due to shortage of coal which was blocked by some sections of society, when foods were not available to us easily due to the blockade of transportation with the demands of some sections of our society, when price rise was not able to control by the government etc and etc after that we started realizing the importance of those more than 70 % populations of our villages who use to put that much of hard work for the whole of their life without any second thought of leaving their occupation but by the next day we forgot all these second thoughts. Otherwise we all should pray for every farmers of our villages everyday for giving us all these valuable blessings in the form of our food, they are our first god other than those we worshiped in the name of religion.

As our system of education is so much bounded to employment opportunities with better living not for a better thinking with sustainable development, every young students are trained to live in a higher cost of living with higher earning not in higher value of living in simple way, every youngsters are guided with options of those which are respectable by name and fame in our society not for those which are valuable in a society, every youngsters are taught to crack the competitive exams but not to crack the problems of our surrounding and environment. So with all these we find difficult to get a doctors young sibling as a farmer or but showing getting a very few of our farmers young siblings who turns out with better achievement starts from shining like stars to migrate to a new address shows any development in the field of our non- irrational way of development. And it’s quite difficult to find an IAS or a doctor or an engineer or any of the educationalists working at our villages with their heartfelt love and care, if happens so may be one in hundreds.

So I promise you, If I will have my children then I will surely make she/he a doctor or an engineer or an IAS or some highly profitable profession and will make him/her to earn good for living happily in the cities only. If she/he happens to become a doctor then will surely open a chain of hospital or clinic to serve all the cities of our Nation not at the villages.

Please corrected me…….if it makes you wrong..!!!

By AD……..

EVERY LIFE IS WITH THOUSANDS OF POSSIBILITIES…..

(……..After writing a long 7 pages of letter to my old high school teacher after a long time narrating some of my experience about my life and how much I have changed since he taught me how to struggle in life to till now. No matter how bad we were and no matter how old our teachers are, they are always behind us and hope will surely the sentences which I expressed some of my views can be read much better by them than anyone else in this World. Dear friends at least this is my humble request, even though we are not living in a country like Finland where Teachers are like next to God to us, as at here everyone talks about how much money he/she is earning, whether he/she is in US or Britain that matters more than how much he/she knows what I called in a knowledge society and at here again I may be wrong as believing those four fold classifications of human mind what we have by our imagination, 1. With whatever I am telling is partially right with your views, 2. With whatever I am telling is exactly right with your views, 3. With whatever I am telling is totally opposite to your views, and 4. With whatever I am telling is totally new to you; kindly try to write something to our old teachers and wishing them a happy teachers day forever to them as the day when we came out from their hand we should celebrate everyday as their day. Because what we are living today is just because of yesterday. And apart from this I am here to narrate you all another Indian story, another story which you and I can read apart from our daily updates of celebrities and personalities as millions eagerly waits for a baby to be born in this materialistic world, whose baby; for one of the celebrities. We talked about those who are above the level of poverty as we all are above the level of poverty. But how about those who are living below the poverty line. Who will wait for another baby boy who is going to born in their family……)

We are surrounded by an environment which is related to nature but ruled by none other than this so called our rulers, as we divided everything as ours, otherwise what I am getting as my share of land property which was inherited by my father is belongings of nature but unfortunately who knows and remembered all about this. And for all these we fight for each other, we demand for our shares and we try to destroy the nature at last as nobody satisfy with our own rule of division and subtraction.

So here comes the story of a boy who is always with bounty of gift with thousands of possibilities in his ways ahead of life by nature as life remains the same like what you and I are having. But everyone believes that the fate and possibilities are with us only not with those who are down trodden. Once a baby boy was born but still at the age of 18 he don’t know where he belonged to as he was among many children of his family who seems to be the son of a labourer or slum dweller or lives in countryside or forest adhivashi where people never dream even to reach upto there and still he don’t know who are his parents when he came up to meet us and live among us as we speak different language and as our society neglects those who can’t produce any documents or read or write about their belongings; and again ours is all about thousands and we have thousands like him in our so called integral society which we always differentiate from us but their share belongings are comes under those who can read and write their parents name forcefully.

But your idea to share some of your knowledge about how the world is look like and how the things are moving, making them to involve in our social life, education not for employment but for living happily and equally like everyone, showing them the difference between good and bad, guiding them from the side, leading them to lid the light of value of knowledge will make possible for every thousands of possibilities in their life. Hope you might thought everything is with money but sometimes everything doesn’t comes with money. Otherwise they don’t have any space among thousands who frame the so called policies for them; nobody cares about how even they live as they belong to other side of the world. Did you ever try to imagine or try to reach upto them for a moment in your past days of life. If so you are one among the luckiest. So when one among us said our society is going to be changed tremendously with a separation like two sides of a coin which we can’t look both at the same time, there is no doubt for confusion.

And here I believe that life can be brought up by life only, sometimes not with money. May be you won’t agree as we are surrounding with everything which is much costlier enough to be bought by those thousands earners only but not by those who have few cents in their hand. But every man is born with a beautiful mind, as even a mad man use to have a mind. Let’s not compare money with knowledge. Hope your knowledge is the source of every possibilities of every life who can’t go ahead with many of the possibilities.

But believe me…”every life is with thousands of possibilities, not only for this boy but for all of us….….”

AD......